Getting even feels good and is worth any negative consequences; you have to get back at people.
- Other people should approve of me and like me.
- People should know what I want and I shouldn’t have to ask.
- I know everybody lies and you can’t trust them.
- I shouldn’t have to work at getting what I want.
- People don’t deserve me and everything I have to offer.
- I don’t have much to offer.
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